Love and Hip Hop

So  mentioned before how I love reality shows. I don't have drama in my life but I don't mind watching drama presented on television for entertainment. So, I have been watching the reality show Love and Hip Hop. It is pure comedy, at the same time it's kind of sad. So there is a woman named Mimi who is dating a guy named Stevie J, Steve is a womanizer, he loves women and although he is with someone, and has a child by Mimi, he continues to mess around on her with one of his artist names Joseline. Now Joseline is not the only other woman he messes with but these are the two women on the show.

My problem-Why be with someone who treats you like that? Not to say women don't do it but why would you want to make yourself look like a fool on national television. This guy has made her look like a complete idiot. Then there is Joseline. Why would you want to be the other woman in hopes of one day being THE woman? Why  be the one to break up a home, be the one to break a child from her father? I don't think women look at the big picture. We already know men don't think like that. Maybe it's because she isn't a mother herself and didn't have a mother and father, as she has stated, in her life. I think that makes a big difference on the type of morals you have.

This relationship is not the only one with problems. Now we discuss Erica and Lil Scrappy. I think Erica is smart, she is not going to put up with the games. She did give Scrappy a chance by taking him because but I don't think she will have him to make her look stupid again. Scrappy, I think, is greedy, and his mother doesn't make the situation better by dropping her two cents. I think she needs to let Scrappy grow up and learn to make some hard decisions on his own. I, myself, am not a mother so I want to ask, do you think as a mother it is your job to involve yourself is the affairs of your child? Don't you think at some point you have to stop and say "You are a grown man or woman, and as a grown man or woman you have to fall in order to learn how to get back up, I won't always be around to dig you out, so these are things you need to learn." Now Scrappy is messing around with this other woman who he allowed to seduce him into a relationship that he probably shouldn't have allowed, but again he is greedy and wasn't able to push this plate back.

I guess one day they will all learn their lessons and know what it is to truly be happy with yourself and learn to love and respect others.